The Narrow Trail

Stories of Grace, Growth, and Horsemanship

  • The Narrow Trail
  • Home
  • About
    • Contact
    • Meet My Herd
  • Resources
  • Blog
    • Educational
    • Inspirational
  • Shop
    • Cart
  • Log In

Categories

Search

Home » The Head Shy Horse

The Head Shy Horse

Is your horse head shy? This can be problematic for many reasons and I’m sure you have experienced some frustrating moments because of it. One of the main frustrations is probably bridling.

head shy horse

When I was a kid, we had this really tall horse, and he was head shy. I wasn’t too horse savvy back then, so I never knew how to fix it. Therefore, I just compensated and stood on something like a bucket and then on my tippie toes to reach his head. How often do we just compensate rather than addressing the issue? Let’s change that!

Why may your Horse Head Shy?

Now that I’m older, I like to ask why. Why would the horse be head shy? Maybe the horse has been hit in the face that caused him to be that way. But it’s more likely he has trust issues. Trust goes both ways and if you trust the horse enough to bridle him and ride him, don’t you want him to trust you enough to lower his head and let you do that easily? For a horse to lower his head around a predator puts him in a vulnerable position. And horses who are on high alert and ready to run will keep their head high. Therefore, it’s hard for some horses to relax and have enough trust to put their head down for you.

It’s our job as the owner to gain their trust and help our horse overcome being head shy. That’s what I hope to help you with! These are practical tips you can work on in just a few minutes. I guarantee if you do these on a regular basis, your horse will overcome his head shyness.

Tips for the Head Shy Horse

Lower the Head/give at the poll

Teaching your horse to give at the poll and lower his head is probably the most vital step. I would do this before doing any other. If you get this really solid, then it will make the next steps even easier.

horse giving to poll pressure

To begin teaching this, I would use a rope halter and grab the knot under their chin and begin applying pressure on their poll by pulling down. Your horse may even fight this and pull back or shoot their head up. If this happens, I suggest adding the slightest pressure before they go into a flight or fight response. Because if they are responding with fear, they are most likely feeling trapped. But if they remain calm, then continue the pressure until you feel even the slightest amount of their head lowering.

Spend about 5 minutes a day on this or until you feel like they can do it really well. When you can lower their head to the ground you are doing amazing! Keep in mind it may take you a long time before you get to that point. That’s OK! We are looking for progress, not perfection! I wouldn’t expect my preschooler to spell words, only know the alphabet.

One of the reasons this is such a vital skill is because once a horse lowers their head below their withers, it signals their body to relax by releasing endorphins. So it is an important skill, not just a step to get through. It will be an important tool to have in the toolbox for you and your horse.

Touching your Horse’s Face and Ears

head shy horse

Maybe your horse hates his ears touched or his face rubbed. Well that can be a problem, especially if they need veterinary care in that area. In this case I actually recommend the “get in and get out” method. Focusing on duration of the touching than where you touch. For example: run your hands across your horse’s ear as quick as possible. Then, they don’t have a chance to get upset. Don’t get rushed if you feel they don’t like it, don’t linger. Make it quick! But increase the duration incrementally. If they are OK with one second try two seconds, and so on and so forth.

Stand Above Your Horse’s Head

This is a great exercise for green horses or for horse’s that are really unsure with you being in different spot or looking at you from a different angle. I’ve got three ways to try this and I recommend trying all three. But if you don’t have another horse I understand.

1. Stand on a Mounting Block

stand on a mounting block

By standing on a mounting block you are essentially making yourself bigger and taller. Which in turn can make your horse nervous. Don’t try to get on. We are focusing on their head, remember. Walk them up to the mounting block and step up. If they start to back up try to encourage them forward. As soon as you see some signs of relaxation step off the mounting block and pet them. You don’t have to pet their face until they are ready. But repeat this until it is easy for the horse to stand there with you on the highest part of the mounting block completely relaxed. Remember it’s Ok, if it takes a while! Progress over perfection!

2. While Riding another Horse

If you have another horse to ride, this is a great time to try and bring your horse’s head close to your body while you are on another horse. I would not do this step until you’ve really worked on some of the previous steps and gained much confidence with them. If that is the case, this shouldn’t be too scary for them. Use caution and wear a helmet if necessary. This is going to give your horse the opportunity to see you from a different vantage point. But I am confident if you’ve completed the previous steps, it will be a breeze.

3. From the Fence

Lastly, I would suggest sitting on a fence rail and bringing your horse over and using this unique vantage point to gain even more confidence with your head shy horse. All of these things are going to help. As you are on the fence, remember to reward signs of relaxation and let them get some distance away if needed. Or even getting off the fence all together and walking them around if they need a bigger reward!

sitting on a fence with horse

Tilt the Nose In

At this point, I hope you have gained some real ground in helping your horse to overcome his head shyness. If you can put your arm around his neck, you are doing awesome! At that point, I would say it’s important to work on them offering their head when haltering and bridling. This is done by using your hand or halter to apply pressure on the side of their face so that they tilt their nose in to you. This is something you can work on throughout, but it is a sort of icing on the cake for me. You can be as nitpicky with this as you want. But it’s a great way to establish respect and softness.

haltering horse

Up the ante

Do you really want to see if you’ve made some progress with your horse’s head shyness? Do all these things at liberty. If you have a round pen, great. If not, don’t let that stop you from trying. But if your horse will allow you to touch their head and ears at liberty, you’ve made some amazing progress! Well done!

I hope this article has helped you! If so, leave me a comment. I’d love to hear from you!

Many horses who are head shy are also hard to catch. I have another article that may help. It covers ways to help the hard to catch horse.

Visited 1 times, 1 visit(s) today

Related

«
»

Educational, How To's, Tips, Training 0

Reader Interactions

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

Follow Me

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • YouTube

Blog Categories

Featured Articles

Trick Tuesday – Month of August

My ABC Book of Horses

Trick Tuesday – Month of July

Trick Tuesday – Month of June

Books I’ve Written

  • My ABC Book of Horses: a Poetic Ride Through the Alphabet My ABC Book of Horses: a Poetic Ride Through the Alphabet $19.99
  • Lessons in Faith - A Bible Study of Rahab (EBOOK) Lessons in Faith - A Bible Study of Rahab (EBOOK) $5.00
  • The Gift of Horses (ebook) The Gift of Horses (ebook) $10.00
  • 112 Minutes of Miracle 112 Minutes of Miracle $17.99

Footer

Follow on Instagram

thenarrowtrail

Holding my first children's book, My ABC Book of H Holding my first children's book, My ABC Book of Horses, and feeling grateful for the sweet review I spotted on Amazon. 

#childrensbook #horselovers #kidsbooks #gratefulheart
Do your kids love horses? 🐴📚 My new book My Do your kids love horses? 🐴📚
My new book My ABC Book of Horses takes young readers through the alphabet while celebrating horses of every size, shape, and color. Perfect for ages 3–7, it’s a joyful way to learn letters while exploring the amazing world of horses. ✨
📖 Order your copy today! Link in bio 👇”
It’s here! 🎉🐴📚 My ABC Book of Horses is It’s here! 🎉🐴📚
My ABC Book of Horses is now available!
Order a signed copy straight from me and help support Anna Ministries. ❤️

📦 Link in bio

Thank you for celebrating this moment with me!

#ABCBookOfHorses #HorseLovers #KidsBooks #ChildrensBooks #HorseLife
I feel so lucky to have this little mustang. 🤎 I feel so lucky to have this little mustang. 🤎

#libertyhorse #trickhorsetraining #funwithhorses #horsetraining #trickhorse #blmmustang
Praise the Lord; praise God our Savior for each da Praise the Lord; praise God our Savior for each day he carries us in his arms. Psalm 68:19

So thankful God carries me and holds me. It's not just in hard moments it's not just when we repent. It's each and every day. Draw close to him today. He's closer than you think.
There is about a million blessings a day we can pr There is about a million blessings a day we can praise God for. Can I get a hallelujah 🙌 
God's goodness is everywhere!!! If you don't see it. Then be a blessing to someone today!! Can I get an amen? 🙏

#thankyoujesus #praisehim #godsgoodness #horsetraining #libertyhorse #funwithhorses #trickhorse #trickhorsetraining
Just have fun! ❤️ Just have fun! ❤️
We all need love ❤️ We all need love ❤️
Cold weather keeping you out of the saddle? I got Cold weather keeping you out of the saddle? I got you covered! Check out the latest blog for some ideas for you and your horse to spend some much needed time together this winter! 

Follow the link in my bio and click most recent articles. 

#winterhorse #winterequestrian #equestrianwinter #winterideas #funwithhorses
I recently had the opportunity to listen to a prof I recently had the opportunity to listen to a professional horse trainer speak. At the end he opened it up for a Q&A. A few of the riders wondered how to ‘fix’ the problem of their horse taking off before they are fully mounted and ready. It’s a bad habit for a horse to have. Not to mention unsafe for the rider. But he had a great point, he said, “I’ve seen it happen with colts even after a few rides. No habit was formed they just want to take off.” The practical advice he gave was spot on. Suggesting they start over each time their horse takes a step before they are ready. And to also pause at the mounting block taking a few moments to just pet your horse. 
When reflecting later on about what he said my mind went to the Lord and how He asks us to wait. The Lord is ready to go with us, but we are trying to take off before He is ready. Therefore, He’s gives a, “whoa.” Putting a pause on our plans or making things a bit more difficult for us. 
For reasons only He can know does He ask us to wait. Maybe things haven’t fully aligned yet to accomplish His plan. Maybe He is growing our character. 
Just like the trainer said it’s in our nature to be in a hurry and ready to go. No one had to teach us to be this way. But rather, we must learn to wait. God always has something to teach us in the waiting period. 
I know He has great and wonderful things up ahead on the trail for us to see and do, but we must go when He is ready. Let us sit still for a minute while He pets on us and reassures us that everything is okay. 
He will let us know when the time is right. He will give the signal. But learn to wait. Take pleasure in it. By waiting we are doing God a great honor. We all want that horse that doesn’t take a step without the rider’s prompting. Let’s stand firm for the Lord. 
Scriptures in the comments...
#waitonthelord #renewyourstrength
I love how there is a monster truck in the shot 😄 
I have so much fun with Poncho. 

#thebesthorse #hearthorse #libertyhorse
Meet Chico, the newest addition to our herd and fa Meet Chico, the newest addition to our herd and family. He is a 3 year old miniature horse. He is so well behaved for his age but still has lots to learn. Needless to say, we love him and so grateful God brought him into our life.  Excited for this new chapter.

#minihorse #firstpony #kidshorse
I was trying to roll the ball under him. Something I was trying to roll the ball under him. Something I do with my other horse, but Mathias being only 14 hands, it didn't quite fit. 
I work him completly at liberty. Therefore, he could've ran off. But instead he ran a short distance and turned and faced the ball and me again. Showing great bravery by standing his ground as the scary object continued to advance towards him.
It reminds me how God gives us free will. He wants us to willingly follow Him. Then when somethings scary happens in our life He asks us to look to Him and trust Him. So many people run away and miss out on God's best for them. 
What is the ball stuck under you? A cancer scare? A wayward child? Finacial debt? Whatever it is face it full on with the Lord. You have no spiritual armor on the backside. Stand therefore! Don't let it make you run too far from the Lord. He is there, full of compassion, ready to comfort you. 🤎
In Christ alone is salvation, freedom, peace, merc In Christ alone is salvation, freedom, peace, mercy, truth, and joy.
I heard this recently, and I thought about the mos I heard this recently, and I thought about the most profound moments I’ve experienced in my life, and they aren’t the ones you typically celebrate, but they’ve been so profound that they will stick with me forever.

The day my daughter was born, she also died in my arms. I will remember and hold this moment forever in my heart. It was beautiful. It was painful. It was life changing.

Fast forward a week to the day of her funeral. I lay in bed crying out to God. How do I do this? I decided to put worship music on. I found myself with arms raised, worshiping God amidst the most painful time in my life. That moment, that feeling will remain with me the rest of my life. I was so grateful for the gift of having a beautiful baby girl. But was devastated at the loss of her. Pain and joy mingle in the strangest ways sometimes.

This moment on my horse I am wearing a skirt that has been worn by countless other women all over the world who have experienced such a loss. It is beautiful, but it represents pain and loss. But so much more than that. Though we have scars, we are fighting the good fight. We are more than conquerors through Him who loves us!

Thank you to @journeyforjasmine for the opportunity to participate in project finding your rainbow. 

#infantloss #griefjourney #faithinchrist
So grateful for all God has brought me through and So grateful for all God has brought me through and how He he's turned all things into good even my most tragic. Only Jesus can do that! 

#tricktraining #horsetraining #libertyhorse
When you are your horse's biggest cheerleader 😄 When you are your horse's biggest cheerleader 😄

#horsesofinstagram #horsetraining #funwithhorses #sidepass #libertyhorse
Typical day athe barn as a mom. I wouldn't trade t Typical day athe barn as a mom. I wouldn't trade these days for anything. I want to wish all the other moms out there a happy Mother's day. 
#trulyblessed
Sometimes I pray about something and doubt whether Sometimes I pray about something and doubt whether God will really come
through. But what if you changed the narrative? Instead of doubting, get excited about it!

God, I can’t wait to see how you are going to answer this!

Because the truth of the matter is God is in the business of answering prayers. He even delights in it.

I tell you what, pray, and keep praying because if God doesn’t answer right away, He is strengthening your faith muscle.

You can’t get in shape after one workout.

And there are some things in life that are simply worth praying over for years. Think eternally. Don’t pray for material wealth. Think about what
really lasts. This is the kind of currency God accepts at His bank. And those kinds of prayers earn high yield! Compounding for years to come.

No prayer goes unheard. And neither does it go unanswered.
I feel called to share my faith and help others by I feel called to share my faith and help others by encouraging them.
I believe this platform can be used for good. To not just share highlights of our life, but connect and grow in God's word. 
I recently wrote a Bible study about Rahab. Her faith is so inspiring. I'd love to send it to you. 

Comment Rahab and I will send you the link.
Follow on Instagram

Copyright © 2025 · Darling theme by Restored 316